From the onset of our blog, we have stressed that there are many facets to our art, the most important being respect and courtesy. Last week my associate had an experience on the mat that he feels epitomizes respect, courtesy, honor and spirit on the karate floor. The story involves two highly trained Black Belts. He has expressed his thoughts in his own words, following:
‘There is never an end to what we learn practicing our beautiful discipline. I would like to share an episode that I believe can teach everyone a lot. For those of you who are just starting on the journey of Karate, please understand that what I am about to share with you is an extreme situation that we can use to understand how much karate is in our souls and runs in our veins.
During a “kumite” (sparring) practice last week, in spite of the high precautions we try to keep in order not to invoke injuries to our opponents (or to be injured ourselves), accidents can happen. Karate being a highly physical sport, this may occur from time to time. This is about what happened last week during a good sparring match with a very capable and expert Sensei. Towards the end of our match, I was admittedly tired but seeing an opening I just threw a punch to the face. I lost control of the punch and hit the intended target, failing to pull the punch in time to avoid contact. It resulted in an injury to my opponent, who is a dear friend, causing a fractured and collapsed cheekbone. This injury required surgery and several days of pain and convalescing at home for Sensei.
Even after 25 years training in karate these episodes always leave you with many thoughts. Predominant is the feeling of responsibility in causing harm to someone else, a fact that is in every way opposite of karate teachings. Since that day I just think how this could have been avoided. Probably if I wasn’t as tired as I was I could have controlled the punch strength better and just “touched” sensei’s face, which is something we don’t do in any regards. A bunch of thoughts overlap and give me uncomfortable vibes regarding this unfortunate accident.
What lesson can we take from all of this? What is the teaching value? The answer to this came from Sensei, who from the moment of impact and from the onset, in terrible pain, tried to reassure me that it was an accident and that he was blaming himself, not me, because he failed to block my punch! Incredible!! In what other world (sport or life) can people reach this kind of faithful consciousness? This huge, unwavering sense of mutual respect that never put in doubt that his being hit was not my mistake, but his, and holding me unaccountable for it? I believe that there is no other place with such a high sense of respect among practitioners or each other, where the acceptance of accidents is done with such a trustful confidence that the other’s act was totally fair (regardless of the outcome).
All I can do is just bow to him and his kindness with huge respect in this person and to his capability of facing this painful accident in this way’.
Thank you Sensei!